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Ways to work with me:
Eulogy & Obituary Crafting
I'll meet with you to help you create an obituary that honors one's life story.
Life story book creation
I work with you 1-on-1 to craft the story (or stories!) of your life into a printed, published book that's yours to keep.
funeral planning & celebration
We will work together to create a beautiful ceremony that honors your traditions, beliefs, and stories.
Hi, there! I'm Niki.
I am a certified death doula helping you face your mortality and create meaning through the telling of your stories.
As a death doula and a writer, I strive to help others make sense of their lives and of their mortality, through my favorite medium…writing! To that end, I offer virtual biography services, where we can tell your life’s story in a printed book. My work centers upon the idea that viewing life with an eye towards finitude helps us live with intention and purpose: living presently while still striving towards the future.
Through our work together, I help you consider how you live with intention and create your legacy.
How it works:
1. Book a call.
Let's get to know each other! You'll tell me about yourself, your situation, and your needs and I'll share suggestions for a customized plan to meet your goals.
2. Choose a plan
Together, we'll decide on a path that best tells the story you wish to tell: whether it's a life story, an obituary, or a life honored through ceremony.
3. Tell your story.
We will meet for a pre-determined amount of interviews (virtually or in-person) where we'll get into the nitty-gritty of the stories and logistics.
As my death doula, what else can you help me with?
What’s important to you both in death and life? What does a life well-lived look like, FOR YOU, regardless of how much time remains? Your answers will shape our plan moving forward. EVERYONE can benefit from a session or two of this deep exploration!
Developing a plan with you so your wishes are known to all relevant parties during treatments and hospitalization
Let’s unpack your death anxieties, questions, phobias – I’m here for it all!
From death-positive spaces, mental health workers, grief support, and more, there are more options for help than you might think.
I am a sympathetic and loving presence as you navigate loss.
Developed together according to your wishes
any other logistics that you would like